In my life I’ve given my number to random cute guys on a few occasions. Some I’ve actually bothered to have a short conversation with first, others I’ve literally seen them, smiled at them and handed them my number.
Occasionally it pays off, often it doesn’t.
Thinking about this, I’ve started to realise that because this technique is proven to sometimes pay off, maybe it’s simply a game of probability that I need to play, by giving my number to more random cute guys.
In the past five years I’ve probably handed my number to maybe 10 good-looking strangers. I’ve had texts off almost all of these guys and even a date with one of them.
If I was to give my number to 10 random guys a week, based on the same success rate, that would get me one date a week. Wow.
Every time I give my number to a guy I’ve just met, it’s absolutely terrifying. It takes enormous courage and I feel my heart thumping in my chest, but the feeling of achievement once I’ve done it is one of the best feelings ever.
I just need to find the courage to play this game more often. And you should try it too.