In my endless search for answers to why guys I like never want to go out with me and never chat me up, I sometimes wonder whether it may be because I’m too intimidating.
I’m tall, I’m well-groomed, I’m confident, I’m independent and I appear to have it ‘all sorted’.
Is this threatening to guys?
If it is, it’s a problem. It’s not just a problem, it’s also irritating because half the time we’re told that guys won’t like us if we’re too needy. So will they also be put off if we’re too self-sufficent and confident?
What exactly is expected of us here?