Pick-up artistry is often assumed by many women to be sleazy, underhand or derogatory. I totally disagree with this. I believe that more men need to learn pick-up techniques. A lot more men.
So many men are terrified of talking to women or of asking them out. Men who do have the balls to go and talk to women in bars usually make a really bad job of it so that it’s not fun at all for the ladies in question.
With every decade that goes by, men get more and more useless at seducing women. Men are so afraid of losing face and of being rejected that it makes dating a near-impossible task.
The truth is that many women secretly want to be chatted up and asked out. They would very much enjoy some sparkling conversation with a charming stranger. Pick-up techniques equip men with the tools they need to give women this.
Having the skills to engage a woman in conversation and charm her are not sleazy or underhand.
What can be sleazy or derogatory are the intentions with which some men use these techniques. True, some men do just want to pick up a woman for a simple one-off shag but many men want something more than that and pick-up can be used for that goal too.
If you’re a single man and you want a one-night-stand, a date or even a wife, you have to adopt some of the techniques of the pick-up artists because they will greatly increase your chances of getting what you want.